I was five years old when the Supreme Court ruled on the issue of abortion – too young to understand until I reached my teen years. Roe v. Wade. I listened to a broadcast today by Focus on the Family which includes audio of some of the actual court proceedings from 1973. It is well worth 25 minutes of your time. If you haven’t guessed by now by reading my blog, I am a Catholic/Christian and I believe that life begins at conception. I recently learned about a program supported by Focus on the Family called Option Ultrasound. This program helps women in crisis SEE, BELIEVE and CHOOSE LIFE for their precious preborn babies! Remember how much more bonded you felt with your babies when you saw the first ultrasound? This program has saved an estimated 230,000 lives over the last 10 years!
It saddens my heart that many young girls and women are convinced that the “easy” thing to do is terminate a pregnancy. Many women are desperate for a solution to an unexpected pregnancy and so they must make a choice. Why must the choice be between life and death? I have been blessed to have cousins, nieces & nephews, in-laws and many friends who were adopted, and I am grateful that my life has been enriched because someone I will never know chose life for their unborn children. To learn more, I encourage you to read/share The Sanctity of Life – a great resource for all stages of life from the womb to the tomb.
Upon reflection today, I realize how blessed I have been to carry and give birth to three beautiful children – my twin sons and my daughter. Parenting isn’t easy; it’s downright scary at times. But it also gives us beautiful moments and opportunities to grow and reflect God’s love back to our children. He gives us the grace to do the best job we can. There is no greater honor than witnessing God’s creative handiwork!
A dear friend of ours lost her 84 year-old mother this week. This woman was truly a “voice for life,” and her legacy will live on through her 10 children, 65 grandchildren and 30 great-grandchildren. She was a beautiful, faith-filled woman who trusted God and loved her family. Just to be around her made me feel closer to God. Whenever I saw her she made me feel important and was interested in my family – an awesome trait that she has passed along to all her children. She and her husband were a beautiful witness to the value and dignity of all human life.
The holidays wore me out – – honestly! The snow and the record-breaking cold have forced me to slow down for a couple days and I am grateful.
I took the kids sledding last week (yes, the 20-year-old boys and their girlfriends and my 14-year old daughter!) and it brought back some great memories. I even bravely went down the hill once. Since I didn’t get hurt or wet my pants, I decided not to tempt fate and just enjoy watching. I had the same sense of delight seeing them have fun now as I did when they were little. I was happy to see that they are still kids at heart, and I hope for them that never goes away!
I remember the days it took at least 30 minutes to dress both boys to go out to play – – snow pants, then boots, then mittens (mittens first so the cuffs would be under the coat sleeves), then coats, hats and scarves. “Let’s build a snowman!” I would say with great enthusiasm. They would be excited about that for about 5 minutes before they would become distracted by their footprints or how far they could throw the snow or what the snow tasted like (no yellow snow, please!!). I would find myself crawling around the yard rolling up a snowman because we had to have something to show for our outing. Jonny enjoyed tossing the snow up in to air and yelling, “We’re rich with snow!” I have never forgotten his simple joy that day.
Inevitably and all too soon, one of the boys would need to go potty or lose a glove or a boot, and I would hustle them into the house looking like powdered-sugar covered donuts. I learned quickly to have an empty laundry basket near the door to catch all the snowy gear, which would eventually make its way to the dryer. Then it was off to get dry clothes and a meal or snack and then hopefully a nap! Two hours of work for 20 minutes of fun! When your kids are small, that’s about all you can expect. The older they got, the fun lasted longer and I could watch them from the window. If I was lucky, I could get them to shovel the driveway with the promise of hot chocolate when they came in. I’m so glad I was able to play with them and teach them how to have fun– to be “rich with snow.”
Sometimes I long for those days – – I no longer stand at the window to watch them play and build snowmen in the yard. Now I stand at the window to wave as they drive off in their cars. I pray for their safety and their safe return home . . . and I remember we are indeed “rich with snow” and many other blessings.